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Your relationship with yourself affects how you feel in all your relationships, and your life.
Have you found that:
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You often feel crazy or wonder if you have an emotional problem.
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When being shown love, you think, "Ugh, how could you love me?" -- and you resent them.
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You don't know how to just relax and enjoy time with your partner; it never feels like enough.
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Their mood can make or break your entire day.
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Everything looks good from the outside, but you feel doubtful, anxious, and empty on the inside.
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You’ve done everything possible to be a good partner... except having your own self-love.
It’s not your fault.
There's nothing wrong with YOU for struggling with self-love.
You've just been taught that self-love
is something you EARN...
...instead of an identity that you BECOME.
When you have a self-love identity, it naturally changes who you are in your relationship.
Suddenly, you're the calm, put-together one.
You're the one with peaceful confidence and secure self-esteem.
You're the one showing up fully present and full of life.
You naturally become your most attractive, loving self -- because self-love is simply who you are.
“But I don't hate myself!
I like a lot of things about myself.”
I felt that way too.
From the outside, everything looked good. I worked hard, furthered my education, had long-term relationships, interests, and a social life.
But on the inside I was barely holding it together.
My self-love, my self-esteem, my inner security and happiness... all came from my boyfriend. I lived in fear of losing him.
When things felt uncertain, I’d fall into despair. I became anxious, upset, insecure, and resentful... and I tried everything to improve things....
...except self-love.
I mean, I tried the positive affirmations, the sexy dance classes, the journaling, meditations, pampering, and self-compassion.
But the idea of feeling love towards myself still felt weird, gross, and forced.
Because I didn’t have an identity of self-love.
When I made self-love into part of who I am... I naturally became a completely different version of myself.
You can read about my full transformation here, and how I can help YOU do the same in your relationship.
Self-love is an identity that YOU learn to unlock
You were born with self-love...and then through the years it got covered up.
But it's not lost.
It's there within you waiting to be found and made a part of who you are.
As your coach I help you step into the identity of self-love in a way that will seamlessly integrate with loving others, and create more secure love and healthy emotions in your life.
Self-Love is an identity
I help you find yours.
